I have been going out with lot´s of girls, who just can´t wait to get married. I was thinking why girls just can´t enjoy each stage on their lives. The thing is that in latin cultures girls start to stress because they haven´t got married, and that begins when they turn like 20 ha! I can´t just accept how you as woman or man if you are in that situation, just enjoy this stage of your life.
Your family is a very important stage, you should just enjoy them every single second you have. Life is not that long you know, and family is not always going to be there, if you´re parents gave everything for you during the time you lived with them now is pay back time. Take them for a nice meal, call your grandmother every week. Call your cousins, text your friends, go enjoy every single person that makes your life be important. It is so amazing how people just let life go along without noticing all the little things that pass right before you. Have you ever looked at the trees? Have you ever enjoyed an excellent landscape? Have you ever travelled with your friends? Have you ever called a friend to see if they are ok? Have you ever smiled just because you remembered something super funny? Have you ever listened to a song thinking about good memories? Have you ever done anything special for your granparents? Have you ever done anything that really matters? If the answer is no, well you have one life to live, and one life only, this life should matter.
I think all human beings are just living the moment, the rush in life. We just think about money and what it can bring to us. And if we don´t have it we are not happy. If you are not happy right now what makes you think that a person is going to do in your life!? A person never brings us fullfillment in our lives. Of course I don´t say its beautiful to love, or be loved, its an amazing feeling but if you cannot accept who you are, what you are, who your family is, how can you ever accept this other person. Start just meditating in all these little things and try just being happy everyday. Smiling and laughing is the best feeling a person could have, ever. I just love when I can laugh for hours with friends. If you can feel super good with yourself and by yourself you´re done and the rest comes along. Don´t be expecting always to have someone, there are some people that cannot be alone any second, and they just go into rebound relationships.
Everytime you are with a person you get into emotions. If you have too many people in your life then what happens is that you are going to carry too many luggage into the other relationship. Let me explain it like this: A person is like a coca-cola, first you are closed right, then the first person (relationship) opens the coke, then you leave that person, and go into another person, that person takes a sip, the next another sip. The question is.. Do you wanna be empty when the last persons take that sip!? I don´t think so. Don´t be getting into relationshiops just not to be alone. The best feeling is to be alone, and be happy. Feel complete by yourself and that is the moment you realize that when the person comes along you are just going to be ready for that person, and maybe not be closed completely (coke) but maybe be open because it is important for you to mature and have relationships its the path in life. But maybe just have a few sips and then give the rest to that special one!! I hope this helps you to think that being alone its not aweful, its the best thing that can happen to you, more when you have God in your heart and soul, you know that he is the one you can count on everytime you feel by yourself.. Have a nice day..