Wednesday, February 18, 2009

DON´T GET STRESSED..

I have been going out with lot´s of girls, who just can´t wait to get married. I was thinking why girls just can´t enjoy each stage on their lives. In latin cultures, the majority of girls begin to stress, because they are not married.

There is always a reason why people, girls or girls are alone. Maybe its just for you to begin taking your family for granted. Your family is a very important factor in your life, we should enjoy them every single second. Life is not that long, and family is not always going to be there.

If you´re parents gave everything, or maybe they didnt, but its this life we were called to live. So there is always a second chance on how we live our own life. Take them for a nice meal, call your grandmother every once in a while. Call your cousins, text your friends, go enjoy every single person that makes your life important. It is so amazing how people just let life go along without noticing all the little things that go on right before us.

Have you ever taken the time to really look at the trees? Have you ever enjoyed an excellent landscape? Have you ever travelled with your friends? Have you ever called a friend to see if they are, ok? Have you ever smiled, just because you remembered something super funny? Have you ever listened to a song thinking about good memories? Have you ever done anything special for your anyone close? Have you ever done anything that really matters? If the answer is no, well we all have one life to live, and one life only, this life should matter.

All human beings are just living the moment, the rush in life. We just think about money and what it can bring to us. And if we don´t have it we are not happy. And if we do, we are not happy either. Dont let life become the subject "when", when I have a car I will... When I have a house I will... When I have that job I will... When I graduate I will.. Lets try starting today.

If you are not happy right now, what makes you think that a person, job, car, or luxury will do in your life!? A person never brings fullfillment into our lives. Of course I don´t say its beautiful to love, or be loved, its an amazing feeling but if we just dont accept who we are, what we are, who our family is, how can we ever accept this other person.

Maybe its just time to begin meditating in all these little things and try just being happy everyday. Smiling and laughing is the best feeling a person could have, ever. I just love when I can laugh for hours with friends. If you can feel super good with yourself and by yourself you wont need anything else to fill you. Anything that you are supposed to live, will come along.

Somehow we always expect we should have someone next to us, there are some people that cannot be by themselves for a second, and they just end up in rebound relationships.

Everytime you are with a person you put emotions into that relationship. If you have too many people in your life, then what happens is that you are going to carry too many history into the other relationship.

An example I love is that a person is like a coca-cola. First you are closed, then the first person (relationship) opens the coke and takes a sip, but you never stay with the first person, so the next one comes and takes the second sip. Now you as a coca-cola re not as filled as the beginning. And imagen if for every relationship we have had meant a sip from our coca-cola. What would you have for the last person to drink. Not even a sip? Will you be empty by then?

When you know that you are ready for something is that moment when you feel good being alone, and happy. You just feel complete by yourself, in that moment you know that you waited enough time for your coke to fill up again. More when you have God in your heart and soul, you know that He is The one you can count on. He is our free re-fill...

Have a nice day..

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

POSITIVE...

I like people who are positive, because maybe things can be awful but if you look always at the bright side of the situation, then you are going to end up just enjoying the moment you are having. Remember we have one life and one life only, this one is short and should live it happily.

Sometimes we just don´t realize how short it is, but if you just realize how our grandparents tell us how when they were young. Everything was so different and how they didn´t do anything of what we do nowadays. So just think about this whenever you are going to say something negative, and get it out of your system.. THINK ABOUT IT TWICE...
I love being positive, whenever I lose something I try not getting angry its just material stuff, there are things more important here on earth that those things. Here is an example, like when you just love a pair of jeans and they are your favorite ones and then all of the sudden, they are all white, the bleach messed them up. If this happens you just

A.. lose it..
B.. lose it.. or
C.. lose it..

Why should we people be like that!? We should just be grateful because now we have the opportunity to think. Sometimes we don´t understand the reason, why things go a different way, than what we would want. How uncool, right!? Just go to a store and buy another pair.

But then there are the things you just can´t change because its not of value, but they are worth feelings, things you just look at and you remember of. Lifetime memories.. WOW those hurt.. But, just think that you had it long enough to appreciate it, and getting mad and being really mean with other people is not going to bring your "ITEM" back..

JUST BE POSITIVE PEOPLE...
XOXO, And...... back to reality.. haha!!

LOVE..

VALENTINES DAY IS COMMING UP.. what are you doing? do you have a date!? Well if you don´t, think of fun things to do with your friends, etc.

You don´t need to go out with a person you are in love, but you can also just go out and have fun with a friend, with your parents, with family, etc.

Go bowling, rent a movie, or just go to the movies, go dancing, do exciting things you wouldn´t do and please don´t get depressed. Always remember that Valentine´s is not only for people who are in love, but also for those of you who have really good friends, friends for life. Go and show them how much you love them with a little detail..

AND HOPE YOU HAVE A REALLY NICE VALENTINE´S DAY THIS FEBRUARY 14th...

AND REMEMBER BACK TO REALITY, JUST LIVE IN YOUR REALITY AND DREAM ABOUT SOMETHING NEW FOR NEXT YEAR lol, maybe a guy or girl comes along!!.. ;) and always BE POSITIVE... ALWAYS, ALWAYS!!

BACK TO REALITY OHH THERE GOES GRAVITY..

I just love how this sounds. You may be in that time where you are thinking about anything or just taking a break on something when you just realize you are just dreaming. So, that is the right moment to say.. BACK TO REALITY OOOOHHH there goes gravity!!! :) and that is why I decided to name my blog this way, because we have to be dreamers but always know when to come back to our reality. And keep on living until we achieve our dreams. Get ready to have fun, thank you for reading my BLOG!!