I have been going out with lot´s of girls, who just can´t wait to get married. I was thinking why girls just can´t enjoy each stage on their lives. In latin cultures, the majority of girls begin to stress, because they are not married.
There is always a reason why people, girls or girls are alone. Maybe its just for you to begin taking your family for granted. Your family is a very important factor in your life, we should enjoy them every single second. Life is not that long, and family is not always going to be there.
If you´re parents gave everything, or maybe they didnt, but its this life we were called to live. So there is always a second chance on how we live our own life. Take them for a nice meal, call your grandmother every once in a while. Call your cousins, text your friends, go enjoy every single person that makes your life important. It is so amazing how people just let life go along without noticing all the little things that go on right before us.
Have you ever taken the time to really look at the trees? Have you ever enjoyed an excellent landscape? Have you ever travelled with your friends? Have you ever called a friend to see if they are, ok? Have you ever smiled, just because you remembered something super funny? Have you ever listened to a song thinking about good memories? Have you ever done anything special for your anyone close? Have you ever done anything that really matters? If the answer is no, well we all have one life to live, and one life only, this life should matter.
All human beings are just living the moment, the rush in life. We just think about money and what it can bring to us. And if we don´t have it we are not happy. And if we do, we are not happy either. Dont let life become the subject "when", when I have a car I will... When I have a house I will... When I have that job I will... When I graduate I will.. Lets try starting today.
If you are not happy right now, what makes you think that a person, job, car, or luxury will do in your life!? A person never brings fullfillment into our lives. Of course I don´t say its beautiful to love, or be loved, its an amazing feeling but if we just dont accept who we are, what we are, who our family is, how can we ever accept this other person.
Maybe its just time to begin meditating in all these little things and try just being happy everyday. Smiling and laughing is the best feeling a person could have, ever. I just love when I can laugh for hours with friends. If you can feel super good with yourself and by yourself you wont need anything else to fill you. Anything that you are supposed to live, will come along.
Somehow we always expect we should have someone next to us, there are some people that cannot be by themselves for a second, and they just end up in rebound relationships.
Everytime you are with a person you put emotions into that relationship. If you have too many people in your life, then what happens is that you are going to carry too many history into the other relationship.
An example I love is that a person is like a coca-cola. First you are closed, then the first person (relationship) opens the coke and takes a sip, but you never stay with the first person, so the next one comes and takes the second sip. Now you as a coca-cola re not as filled as the beginning. And imagen if for every relationship we have had meant a sip from our coca-cola. What would you have for the last person to drink. Not even a sip? Will you be empty by then?
When you know that you are ready for something is that moment when you feel good being alone, and happy. You just feel complete by yourself, in that moment you know that you waited enough time for your coke to fill up again. More when you have God in your heart and soul, you know that He is The one you can count on. He is our free re-fill...
Have a nice day..

